by Elizabeth Roth
Skincare has always been really important to me. Growing up, my
brother had atrocious acne. My parents tried to help him the best that they
could. He went to a dermatologist and tried all the professional level skincare
brands. It never really got that much better. He’s 24 now, and his skin is still
acne-ridden, albeit not nearly as bad as it used to be. Looking back, knowing
my brother’s track history and attitude, he likely was never actually using the
skincare products or taking the advice given to him by the dermatologist.
Either way, it scared me. From a young age (admittedly probably too young), I
started using skincare products. I’d freak out anytime a pimple appeared,
thinking I was doomed to be like my brother. I do think I have good skin. I
only breakout from stress or hormones. Who's to say if I won the genetic
lottery over my brother, or if the skincare really worked. Fundamentally, it
shouts volumes about how my eleven year old self was so stressed about my
appearance. I don’t think my brother was ever mocked for having acne, but I
knew the standards were different as a girl. I thought it mattered. I knew it
mattered.
Tiktok Trendy Products
Tiktok and trends seem to be nearly synonymous with each other. In a
microscopic amount of time, what's trendy and cool has changed. It’s
happened countless times because of the power and speed of the Tiktok
algorithm. At one point, it’s sunscreen (which is incredibly important), the
next it’s hyaluronic acid, and then vitamin C, then collagen. In general, Tiktok
has contributed to the rise of Korean inspired skincare products. More
specifically, there is always a certain product that everyone is convinced is
going to fix everything. You need it. Right now it’s the Ordinary glycolic acid
toner; however, it's also been the Cosrx snail mucin, the Supergoop! unseen
sunscreen, the Laneige lip sleeping mask, the Sol de Janeiro Brazilian bum
bum body cream, and so many more. An undiscussed effect of this rampant
overconsumption is that skincare takes time. It can take months for your skin
to get used to a product and to see the desired results. Since Tiktok thrives off
of short form content and the trend cycle is incredibly fast, no one is properly
giving their skin time to adjust or truly feel the effects of the new product.
There can be products that give immediate results, but they also give off long
term effects that a person needs to experience. People are recommending
products after a short period of time of use without truly knowing what the
product will do to them personally in the long term. Not only can this have
negative effects on ones’ skin, it also feeds into the vicious cycle of
overconsumption which has impacts on one's personal finance, lifestyle, and climate change.
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Sephora Kids
Early this year, a trend on Tiktok went viral of people discussing and
complaining about young kids going to cosmetic stores such as Sephora and
Ulta. The so-called “Sephora Kids” or “Sephora 10 Year Olds” are reported as
being rude to employees, other customers, and buying expensive skincare
products that they don’t need. The most common issue with these customers
is often they abuse the tester products. They mix up the products with each
other and leave the display messy and unusable. Seeing as my summer job
was working at my local Ulta, I was already very familiar with this brand of
customer. And yes, I have been berated by an eleven year old for not having
any Drunk Elephant Bronzing Drops. We had to start locking away all of the
Drunk Elephant products to prevent the children from stealing it. I learned to
clock it. Anytime I saw someone preteen or younger, I would mentally
prepare to tell them where either the Drunk Elephant of Bubble displays
were, or prepare my spiel that we sold out of whatever hot item of the week it
was.
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Besides trying to stop theft, my coworkers and I tried to help these kids.
Drunk Elephant is expensive. One of their more popular products, Protini™
Polypeptide Cream, costs $69.00 for one 50 mL container. Beyond the
aftermath at the checkout counter, Drunk Elephant is meant for mature skin
and can otherwise damage a person's skin. The purpose of most of their
products is to aid with fine lines and wrinkles. These young kids aren’t even
close to needing these products, yet they're popular. It’s not hard to
understand why. For one, Drunk Elephant utilizes bright eye-catching
packaging, and so does Bubble, another skincare brand very popular with
kids (albeit their products will not harm their young skin like Drunk
Elephant’s will).
But let’s not blame these kids. Community is vital, especially for young
people who are still trying to figure out who they are. There is always a deep
seeded need to belong, to fit in, to seem cool. Every generation has dealt with
it. Growing up in my neighborhood, it was a Rainbow Loom bracelet maker,
and by the time I finally got my hands on one, it was out of style. Tiktok has
substantially enhanced the rate at which trends occur. These kids go online
every day, and so many edited videos and photos are poured down their
throat. The pressure for people to look attractive at all times is intense.
Anyone could be filming you out in public and post it online. Influencers,
models, and celebrities are all edited beyond recognition, and it's become so
much more accessible to the everyday person. Comparison is inevitable.
Especially at a young age where one has not yet solidified their sense of self.
There is also much to be said about the parenting style of these Sephora Kids’ parents. Not only are these parents willing to drop large sums of cash on a presumably weekly whim, but
they do not question the potentially harmful acids and creams their children wish for.
Instead, parents can have a conversation with their children and make it a learning
experience. They can discuss the implications of why they want these
skincare products. Is it just to fit in? Did they see a video of it online? Online
information can be misleading. Do they have self image issues surrounding
their appearance? These questions can guide their children into having a
better relationship with themselves, their appearance, social media, and
society as a whole.
Why Care About Skincare?
All this being said, skincare is also not the villain here. Skincare can
represent self care as a whole, a brief 5-20 minute break in the day to check in
with yourself, and give your skin a hug. Taking a few minutes daily to cleanse,
moisturize, and apply sunscreen can prevent skin cancer later in life. People
often feel better when they think they look good. While that may look
different for everyone, it’s important to listen to your body and take care of
yourself.
While I still take pride in taking care of my skin, I no longer let it dictate
my self worth. I have other merits and talents that go beyond my physical
appearance. It’s difficult to build that inner confidence when societal
pressures highlight the continued importance of beauty. Beauty can fade in
time and preferences in appearance are fundamentally subjective. Skincare
acts as a confidence booster for countless people, but no one needs every
Tiktok viral product that blows up in the algorithm and market every week.
It’s wasteful, can end up doing more harm than good, and that loyalty to
following trends can prevent someone from gaining their own independence
and self confidence. Besides, who really needs an 72 dollar moisturizer
anyways.
Amazing post! I like how you discussed not only the fallacies of the skincare industry and how this affects not only adults but children too. My sister is the type to purchase the next new skin care product while I am the type to moisturize when I remember but I can't even imagine being so obsessed at such a young age. I really appreciate how you relate some of these issues with children's sense of worth because it really does feel quite predatory.
-Caroline Cords
I really relate to your story with your brother. One of mine had horrible acne for a long time while my eldest brother and I didn't struggle with it as much. I know skin care and certain products become trends quickly then move on to the next thing, but I didn't think about how your skin needs to adjust to a new product and how switching to the next trending product so quickly could have such a negative impact. Love the last line aswell because skin care has gotten so expensive just because its trending or made by Hailey Bieber, which is so ridiculous.
This is a great post! Growing up I had pretty bad acne, and when we had to wear masks it got to the point where it hurt to talk because of how bad it was. I was always told that less is more when it comes to skincare. Since my great skincare debacle from 2020-2022 I have found the products that work for me and try not to get sucked into the trends going around TikTok.
-Clare
You make some really good points here! Your post made me think about how I really don't know what these skin products are doing to my skin long term. I'm so curious to see how all of us who use copious amounts of skincare will look when we're older... will it all really make the difference we're told it will? And of course, the Sephora kid phenomenon is huge. I honestly think its indicative of larger issues we've created in society, like the ones you mention. The lack of safe spaces for kids to be kids and all of the adult media that kids witness via the internet is really driving this kind of behavior.
-Lexi Oybkhan
I like your commentary on the skincare craze with younger kids. I've seen so many TikToks of kids using Drunk Elephant skincare or going over their 20-step skincare routine, which is insane considering most of them aren't even old enough to get acne yet. I think this definitely has something to do with TikTok's push for consumerism.
-Hanna